Today, I went to therapy.
You know why I went to therapy with a therapist today?
Because I have depression (diagnosed). I probably also have anxiety. It’s undiagnosed, but working on getting a referral to see a psychiatrist to get that sorted out. And looking back, I think I’ve probably actually had those since I was a teenager and could have benefitted from medication and therapy, but there was a lack of education about mental illness, and now that I know better I’m doing better. You know why else I need to see a psychiatrist? To get sorted out what meds I need to be on to help with my depression and probably-anxiety. Because I was on Celexa, but it makes me basically unfunctionally exhausted, and my PCM is a GP who just doesn’t have the expertise to sort my meds out like a psychiatrist will.
Do you know what Celexa is? It’s an antidepressant.
So, to recap, I have one diagnosed mental illness, another that’s likely but not yet diagnosed, I take (or should be taking) medication to help me manage my mental illness, and I see a therapist. I have in the past been in hospital for suicidal ideation twice (in 2009), courtesy of a lovely cocktail of Postpartum Mood and Anxiety Disorders and a Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis-induced non-functional thyroid.
Do you know what I’ve never once done or even considered doing? Shot a person, much less committed a mass shooting. I also have lots of other friends with a variety of mental illnesses, and do you know what we all have in common? It’s never caused us to go out and shoot someone, much less commit a mass shooting.
EVERY time there’s a mass shooting, and I do mean *EVERY SINGLE DAMN TIME*, one of the first things that gets brought out *real* fast is that in order to stop mass shootings and reduce gun violence, we need to do something about mental illness, we need to institute mental health screenings as part of the attempt to curb mass shootings and gun violence, etc. And that, my friends, is able-istic BULLSHIT.
Mental illness is not tied to committing mass shootings. In fact, I’d like to point you all towards this statement from the President of the American Psychiatric Association in response to the recent mass shootings in Texas and Ohio.
“WASHINGTON — Following is the statement of APA President Rosie Phillips Davis, PhD, on the shootings in El Paso, Texas, and in Dayton, Ohio:
“Our condolences are with the families and friends of those killed or injured in these horrific shootings and with all Americans affected every day by the twin horrors of hate and gun violence.
“As our nation tries to process the unthinkable yet again, it is clearer than ever that we are facing a public health crisis of gun violence fueled by racism, bigotry and hatred. The combination of easy access to assault weapons and hateful rhetoric is toxic. Psychological science has demonstrated that social contagion — the spread of thoughts, emotions and behaviors from person to person and among larger groups — is real, and may well be a factor, at least in the El Paso shooting.
“That shooting is being investigated as a hate crime, as it should be. Psychological science has demonstrated the damage that racism can inflict on its targets. Racism has been shown to have negative cognitive and behavioral effects on both children and adults and to increase anxiety, depression, self-defeating thoughts and avoidance behaviors.
“Routinely blaming mass shootings on mental illness is unfounded and stigmatizing. Research has shown that only a very small percentage of violent acts are committed by people who are diagnosed with, or in treatment for, mental illness. The rates of mental illness are roughly the same around the world, yet other countries are not experiencing these traumatic events as often as we face them. One critical factor is access to, and the lethality of, the weapons that are being used in these crimes. Adding racism, intolerance and bigotry to the mix is a recipe for disaster.
“If we want to address the gun violence that is tearing our country apart, we must keep our focus on finding evidence-based solutions. This includes restricting access to guns for people who are at risk for violence and working with psychologists and other experts to find solutions to the intolerance that is infecting our nation and the public dialogue.”
https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2019/08/statement-shootings
The whole statement is really good, but I’d especially like to emphasize this part as it specifically relates to this blog post.
“Routinely blaming mass shootings on mental illness is unfounded and stigmatizing. Research has shown that only a very small percentage of violent acts are committed by people who are diagnosed with, or in treatment for, mental illness. The rates of mental illness are roughly the same around the world, yet other countries are not experiencing these traumatic events as often as we face them. One critical factor is access to, and the lethality of, the weapons that are being used in these crimes. Adding racism, intolerance and bigotry to the mix is a recipe for disaster.”
Sit and think about that for a minute. Let it sink in.
“Routinely blaming mass shootings on mental illness is unfounded and stigmatizing.”
I can personally attest to this. ESPECIALLY the stigmatizing part.
Every time you (general, since I’m pretty sure there will be people reading this who don’t do this) post something tying mental illness to mass shootings, you add to the stigma for your friends and family who have mental illnesses. It makes it so much more difficult to reach out for help when you have received the message that people with mental illness are dangerous monsters who might go commit a mass shooting. That kind of stigma is incredibly dangerous and directly contributes to people being afraid to reach out for help when they’re struggling. And the danger isn’t to the people around them, it is to them, because untreated mental illness all too often kills the people who have the mental illness.
Yes, gun violence and these mass shootings are indescribably tragic and senseless. They are an utterly avoidable waste of innocent human life and source of completely unnecessary pain, suffering, and grief. But they aren’t the fault of mental illness, and targeting mental illness does the opposite of helping. It does absolutely nothing to reduce these events from being perpetrated, and only contributes to the dangerous stigma that surrounds mental illness. We absolutely need to address the plague of gun violence and mass shootings in the United States of America, but focusing on mental illness is not the way to do that. If you want to do something about mass shootings, start addressing racism, white male supremacy, misogyny, rape culture, and domestic violence. Start calling these mass shootings what they are: domestic terrorism, and treat them as such, and work to eradicate these vile worldviews that cause it, instead of stigmatizing mental illness. Lives depend on our willingness to shift the conversation and start rooting out the evils that cause people to perpetrate these acts of evil.
Do we need to address gun violence and mass shootings? Yes.
Do we need to improve the abysmal state of mental health care? Yes.
Are/should those two be tied together/part of the same conversation? Not just no, but an emphatic, absolute, unqualified HELL NO.
Work to find evidence based solutions to addressing gun violence and mass shootings. Work to implement sweeping reforms to the state of health insurance and mental health care in the U.S., also utilizing evidence based solutions. But please, for the love of everything and everyone, stop conflating the two problems. Stop demonizing people with mental illness. Stop stigmatizing mental illness and ignoring the HUGE role that white male supremacy, racism, misogyny, Domestic Violence, and rape culture play in gun violence and mass shootings. Start holding politicians accountable at the ballot box when they refuse to actually work on addressing the problems. Support the organizations that are saving the lives of people with mental illness. Support the research that also helps save lives. Speak out against white male supremacy, racism, misogyny, DV, and rape culture. Speak up when you hear people spreading misinformation and stigma. Stop blaming innocent people because mental illness is a convenient and easy scapegoat.
My name is Esther. I have depression, and I’m not a mass shooter.